10 Foods Men Hate Getting Stolen By Their Girlfriends & 10 Reasons Why It Matters
Why This Always Becomes a Thing
Sharing food between partners sounds sweet and considerate, but not when you learn it's always one party stealing the other's without asking. Turns out, there's a lot more to food sharing than just taking away one fry! Because at the end of the day, it is about manners, and not all boyfriends are happy with the way some partners do it. Here are 10 foods men hate getting stolen by their girlfriends and 10 important reasons why.
1. French Fries
Arguably the most common food that will always get picked at, fries are never safe when you order them. No matter how many times you ask your girlfriend beforehand if they'd like their own, your fries will always be susceptible to a few (or maybe a lot!) getting stolen.
2. Chicken Wings
This beloved bar food is a favorite among many men; which is why it hurts all the more when a few get stolen by a loving girlfriend looking to sneak a few bites. But when you order a dozen wings, it's likely because you're craving that messy, saucy, and crispy bite, and every piece matters in that moment.
3. Burgers
Let's be honest, there's always a perfect bite you're looking most forward to when eating a burger, and for whatever reason, it always gets stolen away. Many boyfriends rarely get to enjoy it, especially when their "not hungry enough for their own" girlfriend manages to get it every time.
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4. Pizza Slices
Pizza slices seem like a shareable food, but really, a few bites and the entire thing is gone. Which is why it's definitely made to be more of a "for one" kind of meal! But when your girlfriend wants a bite or two, you'll be obliged to share, and suddenly, you're left with more of a snack than lunch.
5. Onion Rings
Just like fries, onion rings are another beloved side that gets treated more like the main event than just a supporting act. And because they're so coveted, losing even a few pieces feels like a major loss. After all, you only get a few with every order!
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6. Tacos
It's pretty obvious that tacos are not built to be a shareable food, but that won't stop your girlfriend! They're already hard enough to eat without getting it all over yourself, but trying to evenly distribute the bites between two people is even harder. It feels the worst when your girlfriend takes more filling than should be divided.
7. Sushi Rolls
Sometimes, you're saving that last edge piece made with extra sauce, more avocado, or tons of toppings just so you can savor it, but then your girlfriend comes swooping in and taking it. It sucks the most when you were waiting for it the whole time.
8. Nachos With the Best Toppings
Nobody cares about the plain nachos at the edge nearly as much as the loaded ones in the middle. If you reach over and take the chips with the most cheese, meat, jalapeños, or guacamole when you said you didn't want any, that's where the real annoyance begins. A boyfriend may not say much at first, but he definitely notices when the best bites disappear before he gets to them.
9. Dessert He Ordered for Himself
If your boyfriend's got a sweet tooth, we just know he hates it when his dessert-for-one always becomes a dessert-for-two. As the final dish to close out a delicious meal, he just wants to be able to savor that sweet goodness all by himself in peace!
10. The Last Bite of Anything
Let's be honest, the final bite of a tasty dish or your favorite food matters more than we'd like to admit. Girlfriends shouldn't be surprised if their boyfriend gets upset when you steal that away from them. After all, it was the last bite they were looking forward to and expecting to be able to enjoy.
1. It Ignores What He Ordered for Himself
When men order their food, they're usually choosing it with their appetite in mind. If he's hungry, he wants to eat the whole thing! When you start taking bites that become big portions of his food, you're just being a girlfriend that's not respecting his choices.
2. It Can Feel Inconsiderate
A lot of boyfriends see surprise food stealing as a matter of manners more than appetite. It's not really about you wanting a bite or two, it's whether or not you asked. It can be a simple little thing, but being respectful still matters.
3. He Was Looking Forward to That Exact Portion
Guys don't always admit it, but portion size is a huge part of food enjoyment. Seeing a massive plate filled with what they ordered is incredibly appetizing and makes them want to chow down! So when that huge portion becomes not what they wanted or anticipated, it can be a bit of a let down.
4. It Puts Him in an Awkward Position
Even if he wants to tell you no, he likely won't because it's not like he wants to leave you hungry either! When girlfriends start stealing food, it puts the boyfriend in an awkward position where he's mildly annoyed, but doesn't want to completely ruin the mood or sound petty.
5. It Can Seem Unfair
From his point of view, he made his order based on what you told him, so changing that after the food arrives may feel unfair. It's not that he doesn't want to share, the sudden switch-up can just feel a bit bothersome! After all, he's now expect to adjust without warning.
6. Some Foods Aren't Easy to Share
Some foods just aren't made for sharing! From burritos to tacos and burgers, these can make things messy quick if you're trying to split it or give a few big bites to your girlfriend. And if it leaves stains on clothes, it'll just make the whole thing even more annoying.
7. It Can Feel Like a Boundary Issue
For some boyfriends, a plate of food is simply personal space in its most basic form. That doesn't mean they're being dramatic; people are allowed to have preferences about small boundaries. If you keep taking food without asking, it may feel like that boundary isn't being taken seriously.
8. It Changes the Mood of the Meal
You know how it goes, the moment one partner gets rubbed the wrong way, the entire mood changes. Even a delicious and relaxed meal can turn surprisingly tense and uncomfortable, even if it started thanks to something as minor as this.
9. It Can Make Him Feel Taken for Granted
When you always assume you can help yourself without even asking, it can start to make your partner feel overlooked. It might not seem like a big deal, but it's about setting the standard. When you want something from each other, you should always ask and never just assume they'll say yes.
10. It Can Feel One-Sided
Boyfriends can really grow to dislike this habit if it starts to feel awfully one-sided. If his portions are always hers but she gets to protect her own food, the pattern is incredibly unbalanced. And that alone can make him feel more frustrated than the missing food itself.
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